tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post6553551927712966898..comments2023-09-15T03:51:48.595-04:00Comments on Silence is Broken two, too, to: more from me...Laura~peach~http://www.blogger.com/profile/06816159883380067920noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-14153309309289380512010-12-17T23:17:01.831-05:002010-12-17T23:17:01.831-05:00ahem..... I would like to offer a little insight f...ahem..... I would like to offer a little insight from me, who was married to a person that ended up being a total waste of my time. <br /><br />I met and married an obnoxious, asshole who was not, in any way, compatible with me. I gave up my friends, my personality, my hobbies and my entire identity for this man. My parents hated him, my sister hated him. And not one of them tried to tell me how they felt. I am not saying it would have mattered to me, (at age 19) but in retrospect, I wonder, if someone had said something, maybe I would have reconsidered.<br /><br />Putting color aside, it appears to me, that Mike and Laura are worried about the welfare of their daughter. And their granddaughter. I dont want to sound judgemental, but it really appears that maybe, just maybe this guy isnt quite capable of providing for a wife and a tiny baby.<br /><br />Laura, I applaud you and your husband for at least making your feelings heard!<br /><br />BTW, I think I have my email set to display, I didnt know I had it set otherwise! LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-37169969980998770542010-12-17T09:35:59.788-05:002010-12-17T09:35:59.788-05:00okay several discrepancies here--->most of whic...okay several discrepancies here--->most of which i will IGNORE in oreder to not cause bodily harm to myself or anyone else...<br />#1- I AM 19 YEARS OLD. I AM GROWN. I WILL DO WHATEVER THE HELL I PLEASE AND I DO NOT GIVE TWO SHITS WHAT ANYONE OUTSIDE OF ME AND GOD FEELS ABOUT IT. PERIOD.<br />#2--->pronunciation is a bitch mom...UH LAY UH. lol not A LAY AH. and Juliett is correct :)(with two t's)<br />#3 i will say that in adverse to popular opinion-i do not feel i put myself in this situation...MY FATHER has CHOSEN to NEGLECT me. i have never, not one time NEGLECTED or DISOWNED him. i have been trying for the past year to GIVE him the TIME that EVERYONE says he NEEDS. his reasons consist of "I WAS RAISED THIS WAY" i have said many a time- it is not the nurture of it. it's the nature. it is not natural to hate because of color. and it is partially COLOR. nobody will EVER convince me of anything different. <br />MOM: i have told you so many times over the years how i feel about it. I WILL NOT CHANGE WHAT I BELIEVE. everyone is so set on ME BEING THE BAD GUY because i dont BELIEVE what DAD believes...ive told you i WONT put you in the middle of it. ive told you disregard it completely. dont keep halo. dont pick or choose and if he say you must just choose him. period.<br />Michael feels the way he feels because he was NEVER given a chance because of his color. IT STARTED WITH COLOR. and over the past year its developed into "reasons". <br />i digress...im finished.martanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-13096003919700018092010-12-16T20:56:47.069-05:002010-12-16T20:56:47.069-05:00Thanks for taking the time to reply,Laura, to each...Thanks for taking the time to reply,Laura, to each of us. I know, if I had been in your situation, I would have done anything in my power to KEEP my relationship with my daughter as smoothly as I could, because I loved her so much---like you love Martha. I know Martha loves you, too---and she has carved out this life for herself now.<br /><br />You all have to do this YOUR way. It's easy for me to say, "Oh--I wouldn't do this, or I would do that!" but until I walked in your shoes--I can't say what I'd do. We had two kids, and thankfully, for the most part, they stayed out of trouble. We were fortunate--because there, but for the grace of God go I! My daughter passed away in her sleep of an undetected heart problem 12 years ago. If I had her back, I can't imagine anything I wouldn't go through with her to have her here with us.<br /><br />I'm so sorry you had to go through that with the boyfriend. I know Michael doesn't plan to beat the hospital, but what does he think he could do to KEEP him out--unless he OWNS the hospital!? <br /><br />Honestly, you have more patience than you think! Because--you love Martha--and Halo--and Michael! Maybe one day, miracle of miracles, Mike could do something to earn your respect. You've certainly done enough to earn his. Wish he'd realize it.<br /><br />By the way--ship those "leftover" (ha!)buns to VA!!Bluebird49https://www.blogger.com/profile/01195892307835553912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-75029559870903206462010-12-16T15:48:06.154-05:002010-12-16T15:48:06.154-05:00Oh I'm not nice. Maybe Mike and MJ will make...Oh I'm not nice. Maybe Mike and MJ will make a go of it... and it will all turn out perfectly well. But.... somehow I doubt it. Mike has already shown his true colours... does he not already have a child with someone else? <br />And what 'MAN' wants to be with a child of 17? AND to have a baby AGAIN! Pfffffft.Chris Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599144462630400401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-51717203807255777792010-12-16T15:45:38.860-05:002010-12-16T15:45:38.860-05:00P.S. Our eldest daughter married the most DREADFUL...P.S. Our eldest daughter married the most DREADFUL, MEAN, VILE man ever, after we told her over and over again not to... but kids will do whatever the hell they want at the end of the day. You just have to be there to pick up the pieces when it all goes to hell... and TRY NOT TO say "I told you so"! <br />I did say that actually... but it took me about 3 years! <br />MJ... wait for it!Chris Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599144462630400401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-41197477859440148312010-12-16T15:43:22.693-05:002010-12-16T15:43:22.693-05:00*drooling* all the way down here is sunny (well, O...*drooling* all the way down here is sunny (well, OK it's raining right now) New Zealand. lolChris Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03599144462630400401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-6844740187644353382010-12-16T08:47:02.289-05:002010-12-16T08:47:02.289-05:00((HUGS)) That's all I can say. Stay strong, tr...((HUGS)) That's all I can say. Stay strong, try to be at peace. Try to get some rest. And feel free to come to my house and make those rolls ANY time!!! Luv ya.Tracy DeLucahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11741412524412723632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-91143207541128889362010-12-16T08:27:34.064-05:002010-12-16T08:27:34.064-05:00Good Morning~!
One thing you have to understand ...Good Morning~! <br />One thing you have to understand with this guy your daughter thinks she loves IS when Christ is not evident in their lives these people have no idea that what they are doing is wrong.. they are selfish and only think of oneself.. I have a x-son in law that is a alcoholic and he thinks it's O.K.HE is in total denial. He used to do things to my daughter that were totally so straight from Satan. She finally saw this and left him and now she is divorced. Best thing to do is pray..actually put their picture in front of you and pray for that person.. It works.<br />Keep your eyes on Jesus..that is how we get through these things that hit us so hard in life.. God is our stronghold and he is the one that gives us the strength to give all our troubles to him ~ just pray for your daughter and her boyfriend.. God will do the work for you.. Blessed be the name of the Lord~! <br />ta ta for now from Iowa..4 inches of glorious snow and it's so beautiful outside. 18 degrees.Tiggeriffichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02039721574395014625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-68083077627243619342010-12-16T04:52:06.065-05:002010-12-16T04:52:06.065-05:00Drool. I had to go to Dewey's (which is probab...Drool. I had to go to Dewey's (which is probably a local thing) and get Moravian sugar cake and sugar cookies yesterday. Yes, had to. I only ate 4 cookies last night but they will be gone soon! <br /><br />I think I may get the tiny little tree up today. The big red boxes of stuff is getting on my nerves. I have no plans on decorating much. Everywhere I look there is stuff. David's mostly. He is consumed with work so is not concerned that he still has not put up a bed. I was trying to help...that didn't work out. Oh well. <br /><br />The weather? Gah. Yuck. Gah. <br /><br />Love ya! I'm just waiting for Halo :)Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18440751066438510282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-73455529357114086742010-12-16T04:36:04.279-05:002010-12-16T04:36:04.279-05:00my. mouth. is. watering.my. mouth. is. watering.lil sisternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7959778912391823680.post-41390849283408435922010-12-16T01:50:19.308-05:002010-12-16T01:50:19.308-05:00yes martha i see and realise i have a spelling err...yes martha i see and realise i have a spelling error in her name... Juliet... sorry typing texting and cooking all at once at 130 am is not my best suit... thank you berry muchly.Laura~peach~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06816159883380067920noreply@blogger.com